The Wifey Life

Sometime last week while cooking a yummy dinner I blurted out loud "I'm killing it as a wife this week!!". I didn't mean to sound so arrogant. Let me rewind, Carl had caught my cold from the previous week and bless him he had no sick time left so he had to work through it coming home exhausted each night. I made him rest, take essential oils, drink echinacea tea, take vitamin C, drink lots of water and in bed by 9pm (he gets up at 5.30am). We had just gotten back from grocery shopping and I was cooking dinner, I started running through the list of things that needed to be done around the house, errands and social engagements coming up, when I realized I was ahead of the game;

Grocery run - done

Laundry - done

Washing up - done

Housework - done

Monthly budget - done

Meal planning - done

Taken care of sick husband - done

Birthday celebration plans - done

DMV appointment - done

Documents ready for USCIS interview - done

Worked out - done
Bake yummy goods - done

For the recipe click here

That's when I blurted out my big headed statement that I was a self acclaimed rad wife. What is funny is that I don't usually have it this together. I am always trying to get a million little things done at once and without fail end up forgetting to do that one important errand. Lately we have had a very full social calendar of weddings, birthdays, memorials, weekends away, baby showers and so on that is why I am was so proud of myself this week.

The wife life is definitely different than the girlfriend life. It is more house work, cooking and keeping track of social events for the both of us. I genuinely enjoy it, it weirdly makes me feel like more of a woman. Even though he is more than capable of doing all those things on the list above (and he does), he works really hard putting in a lot of hours at work and his job demands that he pays constant attention to small details. I love to serve him and it is so simple of an act to do.

Every women reads Proverbs 31 and woah did it make me feel insecure and inept as a single woman. Now that I have someone other than myself to care for I actually feel like I have a fighting chance to be that woman. I want to empower women to be the woman and wife God intended us to be, to serve God and their husbands in every aspect of their lives. Being a Proverbs 31 woman is not about being “perfect.” A woman who serves her husband and her family will never look perfect or be perfect but we can try our hardest to do whatever we can.

Husbands- don't think this lets you off the hook! We still need help, so be the loving husband we adore and help us when we ask for it or surprise us from time to time.

(Sheinside -  Top / Hume - His Top)

I adore being a wife and I hope you do to!

Suck it up or Suck it in

Working out - you either love it or you just don't do it!

Since I was a little girl I have loved playing sports. My mum used to say "Anything with a ball, Gemma wants to play it," and I did. I played football (soccer), basketball, field hockey, ice hockey, you name it, and I most likely played it at a team level or just for fun. If you haven't figured it out by now I was tomboy, which I am weirdly proud of. My body has evidence of my tomboy years with scars from playing football in the streets with all the neighborhood boys. I wasn't scared of them and would do whatever it took to win.

In my adult life I have struggled with being active because I HATE running (although I do attempt a run here and there) and the gym is a nightmare. Finally, about 8 months ago a friend of mine told me about her gym, a small independent MMA gym called the Bear Pit, intimidating name right? They had a Groupon deal for 2 months for $25, and it was 2 months exactly til my wedding so duh! of course I am going to get in the best shape of my life to impress my soon to be hubby. Well I fell in love with the coaches, family feel and kick ass workouts. Here is a snapshot into a one hour class:

 Warm up

5 minute run

Countdowns: 10 jumping jacks, 10 squats, 10 push ups, 10 sit ups...then 9 of each, then 8, etc til you get to 0.

Boxing

15 minutes of 2 minute rounds of different combinations with 30 seconds of squat jumps or toe taps or something that keeps you moving

Abs

6 different abs,  2 minutes per exercise, for example:
2 min Plank

2 min Toe Tap Crunches

2 min Ab Twists

2 min Leg Hold

2 min Fish Tails

2 min Plank Hops

Now for the main event, the real workout portion. Generally strength training, cardio, or circuit training for about 20 minutes then we stretch!!

We leave flowing rivers of sweat, feeling satisfied to have made it through and at the same time more relaxed and ready to take on the world. My husband and I LOVE it! We tell all our friends about it (and now you) and I get really upset when I have to miss a day for whatever reason. My husband thinks I am crazy but it is how I get out all my stress, anxiety etc.

 

All that to be said, being healthy is really important to me. My mum is a dietician and whether I wanted it at the time or not, our family was raised on a well balanced diet with the occasional treats and cheats, along with an emphasis on exercise. My mum and sisters are runners and my dad and I are the team sports players. No I didn't just eat salads. Yes I ate pizza, cookies and all those yummy things but that is where the balance is a factor. Surprisingly our bodies crave those things because we need the sugar or the bad fat but all in moderation. I love that now I am older I don't have to learn how to eat the right way but that it is engrained in me. Thanks mum!!!

If you need to get into a better habit of eating, I use myfitnesspal, you set your weight goal and track your daily food. It is amazing how quickly you change your eating habits once you become aware of calories and the ingredients you are ingesting. It all begins with you food then add in fitness!!

 So here is to living healthier lives.